Resilience: Not one size fits all
The article argues that resilience is a unique and individual process, not a fixed trait or simply "pushing through" pain (grit).
True resilience is about understanding what you currently need to help you grow, which can mean taking action, resting, asking for help, or revisiting old wounds with greater understanding.
Psychological Flexibility is presented as a helpful framework for resilience, which involves:
Acceptance: Allowing difficult thoughts and emotions to exist without fighting them.
Cognitive Defusion: Noticing thoughts as mere thoughts, not absolute truths.
Present-Moment Awareness: Staying grounded in the now to respond rather than react.
Values: Using what is meaningful to you as a compass for choosing which struggles to engage with.
Committed Action: Taking small, values-based steps.
For some, resilience also means containment—the ability to hold emotions safely (e.g., using grounding strategies) without becoming overwhelmed.
The process is grown through recognizing personal mental habits (like catastrophizing or avoidance) without judgment and making small, sustainable shifts.
Grateful Hearts, Joyful Lives
Gratitude is a positive emotion involving being thankful and appreciative of the good, both big and small, in our lives.
It is more than just a fleeting feeling; it's a way of being that actively seeks out the positive
The Relationship between Anxiety and Avoidance
Do you ever feel like you're stuck on a loop? That urgent need to make anxiety go away right now is something we all understand. Whether you're physically sick with worry or drowning in anxious thoughts, the fix seems simple: just avoid the trigger. That momentary relief is powerful, but it's a deceptive bargain. By avoiding, we teach our brain that we simply can't handle the discomfort, gradually turning a coping tool into a massive barrier. If you're tired of having your life dictated by the anxiety-avoidance cycle, read on to learn the gentle, yet powerful, strategies for rebuilding your tolerance.
From Clues to Action: Practical Ways to Teach Kids New Skills
“From Clues to Action: Practical Ways to Teach Kids New Skills” focuses on practical strategies for teaching children the missing skills identified in our last post.
Why Kids Act Out: How to See Behavior as a Clue, Not a Problem
Withdrawing to Re-engage
Taking a cue from a certain popular chicken chain, maybe it's time we all scheduled in a day of rest! This article explores the benefits of rest, not just for businesses, but for our own mental health and well-being. It's about finding balance and remembering that a break can lead to greater effectiveness.
Navigating the Teenage Emotional Landscape: A Parent's Guide
Navigating New Beginnings: Addressing Back-to-School Anxiety
It all begins with an idea.